Achieve Happily, Not Happiness.

You have everything you need for complete peace and total happiness right now. – Dr. Wayne W. Dyer.

I know. I know. This is hard to digest. But, then what is peace and happiness all about? Doesn’t that mean acknowledgement? Doesn’t that need acceptance?

I do not intend to say that we should not have dreams, desires, goals. We can very well be, as Ben Sweetland puts it: ‘Happily Discontent‘. We may choose to be happy and grateful for whatever we have right now and then act to enhance the joy or even to share the joy. Fulfilment of our dreams and desires can just be the sources or means of expansion of these feelings. “Achieving happily and not happiness.”

The secret key to success in any area of our lives is ‘Joy’. If you take off from this feeling, you will land in the same feeling. If you take off from a feeling of unhappiness, neediness, or desperation, you will land in those feelings. There are no crossroads. But there are tunnels for us to transform at any moment in between the journey and thus redirect landing.

Even if we have started off from a place of need, we can transform the feeling to enthusiasm or exuberance. We can convert the nature of our goal from ambition to expression. Is this why people say, ‘Happy Landing’ when we take a flight? I guess so! Let this Monday be the foundation stone in building not just the week ahead, but the new year soon arriving. God is equally excited!

#Love, #Joy, #Peace
Shubha Baldota
Counsellor and Life Coach

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Kindness Magic

Kindness Magic

Kindness goes a step ahead of fairness. Fairness has a logical premise. Kindness needs no logic. It is just a natural instinct. But, it creates magic. Kindness attunes us with the forces of nature and we experience effortless manifestation of our desires.

To quote Dr. Wayne Dyer: “Whenever there is a choice between ‘being right’ and ‘being kind’, choose kind.” Our ego always needs to be right and prove others wrong. But, our soul desires to be its grandest self…loving, caring, kind and compassionate. The soul is in search of opportunities to demonstrate what it knows itself to be.

The soul always gives us the first instinct to be our grandest selves. But, the ego jumps in giving us numerous arguments to refrain from following the soul’s instinct. We mistakenly think that we made a smart or clever choice. But, in fact, we have missed the chance to exercise the wiser choice. This creates blockages in the path of realization of our own dreams and desires.

But, when we act before we think…yes, you read it right…when we act before we think, that is, before the ego steps in, and we follow the inspiration we take a leap in moving towards accomplishment of our own aspirations.

Actions taken from the domains of love, kindness, compassion dissolve the blockages and we witness real magic!

Love, Joy, Happy Thoughts!

Shubha Baldota